I finally figured out how to move with Elroy in the round pen.
He will mirror my movements exactly,
when I am walking on the opposite side of the round pen.
Now I feel like an idiot,
because it should not have taken me 6 months to figure this out.
I managed to break through my own block by deciding that I should walk spirals into and out of the center of the pen and ignore Elroy while I did so.
I know Elroy would rather do things with me than have me do things to him..even looking at him makes him uncomfortable. He’d rather look at things with me.
I know Elroy’s personal space he doesn’t like being encroached on is about 15-20 feet,
much larger than most horses and almost all people.
I’ve watched Elroy and Asad do synchronized dancing in separate pens all winter long.
I almost named this post
‘When Smart People Are SOOO Slow!’,
but I decided to emphasize the positive
because
now I have a direction to work towards
WITH
Elroy!
At last.